Thank you for the thoughtful response! I think that you are right of course everything comes down to intent. Even the most innocuous comments when said scathingly and with an air of superiority will be painful and cruel.

For the sake of this argument you need to assume that people are speaking without any obvious malicious intent from the start. Thoughts?

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