You can choose what you love to do, simply by how you think of it and what you focus on. Everything is work. Everything is work. Everything is work. There are few jobs that are fundamentally “easier” than others, whether by virtue of manual labor …
You are meant to do something in-between what you love and what you are good at.
Over long periods of time, people can become good at what they love or come to love what they happen to be good at. I have seen both of these things happen.
I think the real fallacy is believing that it is a question of black and white.
Believing in predestination is a recipe for disaster, as is believing that there is not a genetic component to skill and work.
I wrote a post on learning to love what you happen to be good at-https://medium.com/@alexzitowolf/a-simple-life-hack-d6d1f75a88b9#.fznue2nh8
Thanks for writing - this is an awesome post!